Lady Rarity Pony's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure withdrawn	Blind Spot incompetent inflexible timid violent stupid hostile unhappy distant embarrassed passive dispassionate dull cold
Not Known to Others	Façade vulgar lethargic needy	Unknown intolerant cowardly aloof glum simple irresponsible selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash overdramatic predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that Lady Rarity Pony is insecure
66% of people agree that Lady Rarity Pony is withdrawn
66% of people think that Lady Rarity Pony is embarrassed

All Percentages

incompetent (33%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (66%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (66%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (33%) overdramatic (0%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

NewCalamity thinks: withdrawn, distant, unhappy, embarrassed, cold, insecure.
Vee thinks: withdrawn, passive, timid, embarrassed, dispassionate, inflexible.
anon thinks: hostile, insecure, violent, incompetent, dull, stupid.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, withdrawn</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, violent, stupid, hostile, unhappy, distant, embarrassed, passive, dispassionate, dull, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> vulgar, lethargic, needy</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> intolerant, cowardly, aloof, glum, simple, irresponsible, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, overdramatic, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people agree that Lady Rarity Pony is insecure 66% of people agree that Lady Rarity Pony is withdrawn 66% of people think that Lady Rarity Pony is embarrassed <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (33%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (33%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (66%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (66%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (33%) overdramatic (0%) dull (33%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 15.5.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Lady Rarity Pony">view Lady Rarity Pony's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.