The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Lilly's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenaaloofinsecure withdrawn | Blind Spottimidvulgar cynical needy brash cruel irrational distant blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed loud panicky insensitive self-satisfied dispassionate predictable inattentive |
| Not Known to Others | Façadecowardlydull foolish | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible violent glum stupid simple irresponsible lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane ignorant childish boastful impatient weak vacuous unethical passive smug rash overdramatic callous unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
62% of people think that Lilly is embarrassed
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (12%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (37%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (12%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (12%) cruel (12%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (37%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (12%) imperceptive (12%) chaotic (12%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (62%) loud (12%) vacuous (0%) panicky (37%) unethical (0%) insensitive (12%) self-satisfied (12%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (12%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (12%) callous (0%) inattentive (12%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
boobies in my mouth thinks: aloof, timid, withdrawn, inattentive, dispassionate.
Betsey thinks: aloof, irrational, cynical, insecure, embarrassed.
and... i'm sorry thinks: withdrawn, cruel, insensitive, embarrassed, distant.
death thinks: aloof, blasé, embarrassed, self-satisfied, distant.
GiGi doesn't like this list!! thinks: cynical, brash, chaotic, panicky, predictable.
anonymous thinks: insecure, irrational, panicky, imperceptive, needy.
Elsa (list sucks shadow balls) thinks: insecure, embarrassed, loud, vulgar, panicky.
me thinks: timid, withdrawn, embarrassed, insecure, aloof, distant.
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