Lisiani's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena irrational	Blind Spot timid simple needy childish blasé weak panicky self-satisfied predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade glum withdrawn passive overdramatic inattentive	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent aloof stupid insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant boastful imperceptive chaotic impatient embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that Lisiani is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (50%) distant (0%) childish (100%) boastful (0%) blasé (50%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (50%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (50%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (2 people)

tepan thinks: timid, childish, blasé, weak, panicky, simple.
Tommy thinks: self-satisfied, childish, irrational, predictable, needy.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> irrational</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, simple, needy, childish, blasé, weak, panicky, self-satisfied, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> glum, withdrawn, passive, overdramatic, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, aloof, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, boastful, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that Lisiani is childish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (50%) distant (0%) childish (100%) boastful (0%) blasé (50%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (50%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (50%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 3.4.2025, using data from 2 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Lisiani">view Lisiani's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.