MidNight RPG's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to MidNight RPG's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena incompetent distant	Blind Spot intolerant inflexible timid insecure unhelpful panicky passive smug dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold
Not Known to Others	Façade unimaginative cruel irrational	Unknown cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy cynical needy inane brash ignorant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied rash overdramatic predictable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (50%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (25%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (50%) overdramatic (0%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (50%) unreliable (50%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Thomas Unson thinks: inattentive, unreliable, timid, passive, dispassionate.
Noir thinks: incompetent, intolerant, insecure, callous, cold.
Obi thinks: unreliable, dull, dispassionate, smug, panicky.
sjs thinks: distant, unhelpful, inattentive, incompetent, intolerant, inflexible.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> incompetent, distant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, inflexible, timid, insecure, unhelpful, panicky, passive, smug, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> unimaginative, cruel, irrational</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, cynical, needy, inane, brash, ignorant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, rash, overdramatic, predictable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (50%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (25%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (25%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (25%) rash (0%) dispassionate (50%) overdramatic (0%) dull (25%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (50%) unreliable (50%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=MidNight RPG">view MidNight RPG's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.