Missy Chrissy's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena impatient	Blind Spot violent insecure vulgar cynical brash cruel loud self-satisfied passive rash overdramatic cold humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade inflexible timid cowardly weak panicky	Unknown incompetent intolerant aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive smug dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that Missy Chrissy is violent

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (66%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (33%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (33%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (33%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

liwei_jay thinks: cynical, cruel, brash, rash, violent.
stella thinks: cold, insecure, impatient, passive, self-satisfied.
xiao^pink thinks: loud, vulgar, violent, overdramatic, humourless.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> impatient</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, insecure, vulgar, cynical, brash, cruel, loud, self-satisfied, passive, rash, overdramatic, cold, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> inflexible, timid, cowardly, weak, panicky</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, smug, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that Missy Chrissy is violent <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (66%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (33%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (33%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (33%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 29.7.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Missy Chrissy">view Missy Chrissy's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.