Nick hates u's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena simple hostile needy unimaginative childish	Blind Spot inflexible aloof glum insecure withdrawn selfish embarrassed passive predictable cold
Not Known to Others	Façade foolish	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic unhappy unhelpful cynical inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull callous inattentive unreliable humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that Nick hates u is insecure

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (50%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (25%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (25%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

DANIELLE BOOYAH thinks: unimaginative, glum, simple, withdrawn, cold.
King Keaf of the Coral Reef thinks: selfish, inflexible, childish, hostile, needy, insecure.
Not Mandy thinks: insecure, inflexible, withdrawn, needy, embarrassed.
Mary thinks: aloof, embarrassed, passive, predictable, insecure.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> simple, hostile, needy, unimaginative, childish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, aloof, glum, insecure, withdrawn, selfish, embarrassed, passive, predictable, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that Nick hates u is insecure <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (50%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (25%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (25%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (25%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 14.11.2024, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Nick hates u">view Nick hates u's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.