The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to SURF's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainflexibleignorant childish panicky insensitive | Blind Spotintoleranttimid violent aloof glum simple insecure vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative cruel distant chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless |
Not Known to Others | Façadeboastful | Unknownincompetent cowardly stupid irresponsible inane brash irrational blasé imperceptive vacuous unethical foolish |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (0%) intolerant (6%) inflexible (6%) timid (6%) cowardly (0%) violent (13%) aloof (26%) glum (6%) stupid (0%) simple (13%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (6%) lethargic (6%) withdrawn (6%) hostile (13%) selfish (6%) unhappy (6%) unhelpful (6%) cynical (33%) needy (6%) unimaginative (6%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (13%) ignorant (6%) irrational (0%) distant (6%) childish (20%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (6%) impatient (33%) weak (13%) embarrassed (6%) loud (13%) vacuous (0%) panicky (13%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (13%) passive (13%) smug (13%) rash (6%) dispassionate (6%) overdramatic (13%) dull (6%) predictable (13%) callous (6%) inattentive (13%) unreliable (6%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (13%)
Bryan thinks: selfish, insecure, hostile, cynical, insensitive, cold.
tecky thinks: cold, simple, impatient, passive, hostile.
Chuan thinks: smug, aloof, impatient, unhappy, loud.
BK thinks: insensitive, inattentive, passive, panicky, inflexible.
Vallence thinks: insecure, embarrassed, dispassionate, glum, predictable, simple.
Manhong thinks: distant, impatient, cynical, intolerant, cold.
Evil-Kim thinks: violent, inattentive, insensitive, unhelpful, vulgar, cruel.
elix thinks: predictable, insecure, self-satisfied, impatient, childish.
Ah Girl thinks: insecure, loud, rash, cynical, cold.
xiao man tou thinks: cruel, humourless, overdramatic, self-satisfied, violent.
joanna thinks: cynical, impatient, aloof, childish, callous.
anonymous thinks: weak, childish, overdramatic, insecure, aloof.
anonymous thinks: unreliable, smug, aloof, weak, ignorant.
kim thinks: humourless, cold, chaotic, lethargic, unimaginative.
jonathan=) thinks: dull, panicky, cynical, withdrawn, timid, needy.
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