SURF's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

inflexible
ignorant
childish
panicky
insensitive

Blind Spot

intolerant
timid
violent
aloof
glum
simple
insecure
vulgar
lethargic
withdrawn
hostile
selfish
unhappy
unhelpful
cynical
needy
unimaginative
cruel
distant
chaotic
impatient
weak
embarrassed
loud
self-satisfied
passive
smug
rash
dispassionate
overdramatic
dull
predictable
callous
inattentive
unreliable
cold
humourless
Not Known to Others

Façade

boastful

Unknown

incompetent cowardly stupid irresponsible inane brash irrational blasé imperceptive vacuous unethical foolish

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (6%) inflexible (6%) timid (6%) cowardly (0%) violent (13%) aloof (26%) glum (6%) stupid (0%) simple (13%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (6%) lethargic (6%) withdrawn (6%) hostile (13%) selfish (6%) unhappy (6%) unhelpful (6%) cynical (33%) needy (6%) unimaginative (6%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (13%) ignorant (6%) irrational (0%) distant (6%) childish (20%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (6%) impatient (33%) weak (13%) embarrassed (6%) loud (13%) vacuous (0%) panicky (13%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (13%) passive (13%) smug (13%) rash (6%) dispassionate (6%) overdramatic (13%) dull (6%) predictable (13%) callous (6%) inattentive (13%) unreliable (6%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (13%)

Description Breakdown (15 people)

Bryan thinks: selfish, insecure, hostile, cynical, insensitive, cold.
tecky thinks: cold, simple, impatient, passive, hostile.
Chuan thinks: smug, aloof, impatient, unhappy, loud.
BK thinks: insensitive, inattentive, passive, panicky, inflexible.
Vallence thinks: insecure, embarrassed, dispassionate, glum, predictable, simple.
Manhong thinks: distant, impatient, cynical, intolerant, cold.
Evil-Kim thinks: violent, inattentive, insensitive, unhelpful, vulgar, cruel.
elix thinks: predictable, insecure, self-satisfied, impatient, childish.
Ah Girl thinks: insecure, loud, rash, cynical, cold.
xiao man tou thinks: cruel, humourless, overdramatic, self-satisfied, violent.
joanna thinks: cynical, impatient, aloof, childish, callous.
anonymous thinks: weak, childish, overdramatic, insecure, aloof.
anonymous thinks: unreliable, smug, aloof, weak, ignorant.
kim thinks: humourless, cold, chaotic, lethargic, unimaginative.
jonathan=) thinks: dull, panicky, cynical, withdrawn, timid, needy.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.