Sabete's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena inflexible insecure cynical insensitive	Blind Spot glum vulgar lethargic selfish unhappy impatient loud smug callous
Not Known to Others	Façade distant	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent aloof stupid simple irresponsible withdrawn hostile unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that Sabete is cynical
75% of people think that Sabete is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (75%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (75%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (50%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (50%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

soon to be object of anger thinks: insecure, insensitive, smug, cynical, callous.
sabete part deux thinks: loud, lethargic, unhappy, selfish, glum.
miss. thinks: loud, smug, impatient, cynical, vulgar.
chelle-loves-you-imperfect :) thinks: loud, inflexible, impatient, cynical, insensitive.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> inflexible, insecure, cynical, insensitive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> glum, vulgar, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, impatient, loud, smug, callous</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> distant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, stupid, simple, irresponsible, withdrawn, hostile, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that Sabete is cynical 75% of people think that Sabete is loud <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (75%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (75%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (50%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (50%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (25%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Sabete">view Sabete's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.