Siti84's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena vulgar childish loud rash	Blind Spot inflexible cowardly violent glum simple selfish cynical cruel irrational chaotic insensitive foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure predictable	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid aloof stupid irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate overdramatic dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that Siti84 is simple
75% of people agree that Siti84 is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (25%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (75%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (25%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (75%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (25%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

yani thinks: cowardly, glum, selfish, childish, cruel, simple.
Pwincess Nisa thinks: violent, loud, childish, chaotic, simple.
Shahrizamm thinks: inflexible, simple, loud, foolish, vulgar, violent.
anonymous thinks: insensitive, rash, chaotic, childish, irrational, cynical.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> vulgar, childish, loud, rash</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, cowardly, violent, glum, simple, selfish, cynical, cruel, irrational, chaotic, insensitive, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, predictable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, aloof, stupid, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that Siti84 is simple 75% of people agree that Siti84 is childish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (25%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (75%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (25%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (75%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (25%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Siti84">view Siti84's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.