The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Suburban Lesbian's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenalethargicselfish needy inane predictable | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible timid aloof insecure vulgar withdrawn cynical unimaginative brash childish blasé chaotic impatient loud insensitive self-satisfied passive smug overdramatic dull inattentive |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeweak | Unknownincompetent cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible hostile unhappy unhelpful cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful imperceptive embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical rash dispassionate callous unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
58% of people agree that Suburban Lesbian is predictable
incompetent (0%) intolerant (8%) inflexible (8%) timid (16%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (8%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (0%) selfish (16%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (41%) needy (25%) unimaginative (8%) inane (8%) brash (8%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (25%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (8%) impatient (41%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (25%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (8%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (8%) smug (8%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (8%) dull (8%) predictable (58%) callous (0%) inattentive (8%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
WishIWasYou thinks: insecure, impatient, needy, loud, vulgar.
i have to give you my name? thinks: vulgar, needy, childish, impatient, loud.
I closed my eyes and picked 5 thinks: selfish, vulgar, chaotic, childish, predictable.
anon thinks: impatient, predictable, cynical, insecure, overdramatic.
theonlydaughter thinks: insecure, timid, predictable, cynical, selfish.
weese thinks: inane, aloof, brash, withdrawn, self-satisfied.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, cynical, insecure, passive, blasé.
KMae thinks: timid, lethargic, cynical, blasé, predictable.
Chunkies thinks: self-satisfied, blasé, unimaginative, dull, smug.
sssssssssssf thinks: needy, loud, aloof, predictable, childish.
kbpetlover thinks: intolerant, aloof, inattentive, predictable, impatient.
amber thinks: predictable, inflexible, cynical, impatient, insensitive.
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