The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to SurvivingtheTorment's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecurewithdrawn cynical impatient | Blind Spotaloofglum simple hostile unhappy unimaginative distant unethical passive overdramatic |
| Not Known to Others | Façadecold | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic selfish unhelpful needy inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
75% of people think that SurvivingtheTorment is glum
75% of people agree that SurvivingtheTorment is cynical
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (75%) stupid (0%) simple (25%) insecure (25%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (75%) needy (0%) unimaginative (25%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (50%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (25%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Justin thinks: insecure, withdrawn, cynical, unhappy, glum.
ben thinks: impatient, passive, cynical, aloof, distant.
logis thinks: , glum, glum, unhappy, impatient.
a long lost friend.... thinks: overdramatic, hostile, unimaginative, cynical, simple, unethical.
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