ThatFarkasBoy's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cynical distant childish dispassionate	Blind Spot intolerant cowardly violent simple insecure withdrawn hostile unhelpful unimaginative cruel ignorant weak smug rash humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade aloof embarrassed	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic selfish unhappy needy inane brash irrational boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that ThatFarkasBoy is weak

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (40%) violent (20%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (40%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (20%) cynical (20%) needy (0%) unimaginative (20%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (40%) ignorant (40%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (40%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (60%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (20%) rash (20%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (20%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

Sophie thinks: insecure, childish, weak, cowardly, ignorant.
jessicabutitsnottrue!!!! thinks: rash, cynical, unhelpful, simple, distant.
yournotyoure thinks: ignorant, childish, unimaginative, dispassionate, weak, insecure.
Thomukun thinks: weak, cruel, withdrawn, cowardly, hostile, humourless.
SIMONZILLA, RAAAAHR! thinks: cruel, withdrawn, intolerant, violent, hostile, smug.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cynical, distant, childish, dispassionate</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, cowardly, violent, simple, insecure, withdrawn, hostile, unhelpful, unimaginative, cruel, ignorant, weak, smug, rash, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> aloof, embarrassed</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, needy, inane, brash, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people think that ThatFarkasBoy is weak <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (40%) violent (20%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (40%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (40%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (20%) cynical (20%) needy (0%) unimaginative (20%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (40%) ignorant (40%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (40%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (60%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (20%) rash (20%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (20%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 20.1.2025, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=ThatFarkasBoy">view ThatFarkasBoy's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.