Tommy_Lim's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena vulgar impatient rash	Blind Spot intolerant violent simple hostile childish chaotic embarrassed loud insensitive inattentive
Not Known to Others	Façade cynical boastful dispassionate	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum stupid insecure irresponsible lethargic withdrawn selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant blasé imperceptive weak vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that Tommy_Lim is violent
100% of people think that Tommy_Lim is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (75%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (50%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (100%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (50%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Joanna yee thinks: vulgar, loud, rash, impatient, hostile.
wo bu zhi dao leh... thinks: loud, violent, simple, chaotic, inattentive.
angel PONDERED for sometimes - thinks: vulgar, violent, childish, loud, rash, intolerant.
hytrh thinks: violent, loud, simple, embarrassed, insensitive.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> vulgar, impatient, rash</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, simple, hostile, childish, chaotic, embarrassed, loud, insensitive, inattentive</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cynical, boastful, dispassionate</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, insecure, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, blasé, imperceptive, weak, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that Tommy_Lim is violent 100% of people think that Tommy_Lim is loud <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (25%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (75%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (50%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (25%) loud (100%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (50%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 21.6.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=Tommy_Lim">view Tommy_Lim's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.