The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Veltzeh's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenatimidaloof insecure cynical cold | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible withdrawn hostile selfish distant childish impatient loud insensitive self-satisfied passive smug predictable foolish |
Not Known to Others | Façadeblasé | Unknownincompetent cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical rash dispassionate overdramatic dull callous inattentive unreliable humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
75% of people think that Veltzeh is withdrawn
incompetent (0%) intolerant (37%) inflexible (25%) timid (37%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (12%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (75%) hostile (12%) selfish (12%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (37%) childish (12%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (12%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (12%) self-satisfied (12%) passive (12%) smug (37%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (37%) foolish (12%) humourless (0%)
kai! :O thinks: inflexible, aloof, impatient, cold, intolerant, smug.
stinkoman thinks: intolerant, withdrawn, insecure, hostile, insensitive.
Hanhepi thinks: aloof, distant, passive, predictable, withdrawn.
Babysnail thinks: withdrawn, distant, intolerant, timid, self-satisfied, cold.
Sunrose thinks: inflexible, withdrawn, distant, timid, cold.
Blood Raven thinks: aloof, childish, impatient, selfish, loud.
Nita thinks: smug, withdrawn, cynical, timid, aloof.
Gastogh thinks: foolish, smug, cynical, predictable, withdrawn.
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