Vivika's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to Vivika's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena timid insecure weak overdramatic	Blind Spot cowardly violent simple vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy cynical needy cruel distant chaotic embarrassed loud panicky insensitive passive predictable callous inattentive cold
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn imperceptive	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible aloof glum stupid irresponsible selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé impatient vacuous unethical self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (16%) cowardly (50%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (16%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (16%) selfish (0%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (16%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (16%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (0%) weak (16%) embarrassed (16%) loud (16%) vacuous (0%) panicky (16%) unethical (0%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (16%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (16%) inattentive (16%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

Prince of Persia thinks: violent, weak, needy, cowardly, cruel.
Haley thinks: predictable, insecure, unhappy, distant, simple.
13141)3 thinks: timid, embarrassed, lethargic, vulgar, passive.
Marissa thinks: chaotic, loud, cowardly, simple, distant.
Jessie! thinks: cowardly, violent, hostile, cynical, panicky, predictable.
11 November 2008 thinks: vulgar, cold, inattentive, insensitive, overdramatic, callous.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> timid, insecure, weak, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> cowardly, violent, simple, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhappy, cynical, needy, cruel, distant, chaotic, embarrassed, loud, panicky, insensitive, passive, predictable, callous, inattentive, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn, imperceptive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, selfish, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, impatient, vacuous, unethical, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (16%) cowardly (50%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (16%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (16%) selfish (0%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (16%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (16%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (0%) weak (16%) embarrassed (16%) loud (16%) vacuous (0%) panicky (16%) unethical (0%) insensitive (16%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (16%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (16%) inattentive (16%) unreliable (0%) cold (16%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 6 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=Vivika">view Vivika's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.