XMMMystique's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to XMMMystique's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

aloof
unethical
self-satisfied
cold

Blind Spot

incompetent
intolerant
inflexible
violent
hostile
selfish
cruel
irrational
smug
callous
Not Known to Others

Façade

distant
impatient

Unknown

timid cowardly glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash ignorant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky insensitive passive rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable inattentive unreliable foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that XMMMystique is aloof
66% of people agree that XMMMystique is cold

All Percentages

incompetent (33%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (66%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (33%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (0%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (33%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (66%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Jean Grey thinks: aloof, callous, intolerant, smug, unethical.
Bahir thinks: violent, cold, , aloof, selfish, incompetent.
Magneto thinks: inflexible, hostile, cruel, irrational, self-satisfied, cold.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.