ady seastres's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena needy childish	Blind Spot insecure lethargic selfish unhappy cruel impatient weak embarrassed insensitive overdramatic callous
Not Known to Others	Façade violent irresponsible vulgar irrational	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum stupid simple withdrawn hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that ady seastres is insecure
66% of people agree that ady seastres is needy
100% of people agree that ady seastres is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (100%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (33%) embarrassed (33%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (33%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

moo thinks: impatient, selfish, childish, cruel, insecure, needy.
Jepoy thinks: unhappy, embarrassed, weak, childish, insecure.
meegles thinks: needy, insensitive, callous, lethargic, childish, overdramatic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> needy, childish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> insecure, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, cruel, impatient, weak, embarrassed, insensitive, overdramatic, callous</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> violent, irresponsible, vulgar, irrational</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, withdrawn, hostile, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that ady seastres is insecure 66% of people agree that ady seastres is needy 100% of people agree that ady seastres is childish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (100%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (33%) weak (33%) embarrassed (33%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (33%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 4.4.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=ady seastres">view ady seastres's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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