amane☆'s Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena stupid irrational childish	Blind Spot inflexible violent glum insecure irresponsible hostile cruel weak passive smug overdramatic foolish humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade selfish distant chaotic	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly aloof simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash ignorant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people agree that amane☆ is stupid

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (75%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (25%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (50%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (25%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

😂😂😂 thinks: violent, humourless, hostile, weak, stupid, cruel.
THESE ARE MAINLY JOKES ILY -SA thinks: foolish, overdramatic, childish, insecure, stupid.
🥫🧃 thinks: irrational, inflexible, childish, stupid, smug.
TYLER THIS IS SO MEAN I DONT M thinks: insecure, irresponsible, passive, smug, glum.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> stupid, irrational, childish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, violent, glum, insecure, irresponsible, hostile, cruel, weak, passive, smug, overdramatic, foolish, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> selfish, distant, chaotic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, aloof, simple, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people agree that amane☆ is stupid <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (25%) aloof (0%) glum (25%) stupid (75%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (25%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (50%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (25%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=amane☆">view amane☆'s full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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