blckwngdorcl's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena inflexible withdrawn childish passive	Blind Spot timid aloof glum insecure irresponsible selfish unhappy cynical distant dispassionate inattentive unreliable
Not Known to Others	Façade incompetent insensitive	Unknown intolerant cowardly violent stupid simple vulgar lethargic hostile unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied smug rash overdramatic dull predictable callous cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that blckwngdorcl is insecure
100% of people agree that blckwngdorcl is withdrawn

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (100%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (25%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

spy_isis thinks: aloof, insecure, glum, withdrawn, dispassionate.
bookofmirrors thinks: insecure, withdrawn, cynical, unhappy, inattentive, unreliable.
lunenoire thinks: insecure, passive, withdrawn, distant, childish.
Sarah thinks: withdrawn, unhappy, inflexible, selfish, timid, irresponsible.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> inflexible, withdrawn, childish, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, aloof, glum, insecure, irresponsible, selfish, unhappy, cynical, distant, dispassionate, inattentive, unreliable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> incompetent, insensitive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> intolerant, cowardly, violent, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, smug, rash, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that blckwngdorcl is insecure 100% of people agree that blckwngdorcl is withdrawn <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (75%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (100%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (50%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (25%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (25%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (25%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=blckwngdorcl">view blckwngdorcl's full data</a>. </div>

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