blueshortyx3's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena inflexible insecure hostile panicky overdramatic	Blind Spot intolerant needy irrational chaotic impatient loud predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade unhappy	Unknown incompetent timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is intolerant
66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is needy
66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is irrational
66% of people agree that blueshortyx3 is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (66%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Michael thinks: needy, irrational, panicky, insecure, intolerant.
IcyVisionz thinks: overdramatic, impatient, loud, predictable, hostile.
Aaron thinks: needy, overdramatic, irrational, chaotic, intolerant, inflexible.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> inflexible, insecure, hostile, panicky, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, needy, irrational, chaotic, impatient, loud, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> unhappy</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is intolerant 66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is needy 66% of people think that blueshortyx3 is irrational 66% of people agree that blueshortyx3 is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (33%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (66%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 6.5.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=blueshortyx3">view blueshortyx3's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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