The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to boot_slut's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecurevulgar needy impatient loud overdramatic | Blind Spotinflexibletimid aloof lethargic withdrawn unhappy cynical brash irrational boastful chaotic panicky passive foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant cowardly violent glum stupid simple irresponsible hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant distant childish blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
81% of people agree that boot_slut is insecure
72% of people agree that boot_slut is needy
54% of people think that boot_slut is brash
63% of people agree that boot_slut is impatient
54% of people agree that boot_slut is overdramatic
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (9%) timid (18%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (9%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (81%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (9%) lethargic (9%) withdrawn (18%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (9%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (27%) needy (72%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (54%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (9%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (9%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (9%) impatient (63%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (27%) vacuous (0%) panicky (9%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (27%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (54%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (9%) humourless (0%)
aberrantvirtue thinks: loud, passive, impatient, foolish, panicky.
whipsnkisses thinks: impatient, timid, insecure, needy, vulgar, cynical.
blacksheep_lj thinks: needy, impatient, loud, overdramatic, brash, insecure.
Marcie thinks: inflexible, insecure, overdramatic, impatient, brash, needy.
tsgeisel thinks: needy, loud, brash, impatient, overdramatic.
terpsichoros thinks: insecure, overdramatic, needy, impatient, brash.
joedecker thinks: cynical, brash, impatient, overdramatic, needy, insecure.
Terralthra thinks: unhappy, insecure, timid, boastful, lethargic.
rjray thinks: withdrawn, insecure, cynical, passive, needy.
zikzak5 thinks: chaotic, insecure, brash, irrational, overdramatic.
barelyproper thinks: insecure, withdrawn, passive, needy, aloof.
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