cici88's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known to Others

Arena

stupid
insecure
unhappy
childish
impatient
overdramatic

Blind Spot

intolerant
timid
cowardly
violent
aloof
glum
simple
vulgar
withdrawn
needy
cruel
irrational
blasé
chaotic
weak
embarrassed
loud
panicky
unethical
rash
dispassionate
dull
inattentive
cold
humourless
Not Known to Others

Façade

Unknown

incompetent inflexible irresponsible lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash ignorant distant boastful imperceptive vacuous insensitive self-satisfied passive smug predictable callous unreliable foolish

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

58% of people agree that cici88 is unhappy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (8%) inflexible (0%) timid (16%) cowardly (8%) violent (8%) aloof (8%) glum (8%) stupid (16%) simple (33%) insecure (33%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (8%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (58%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (16%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (8%) ignorant (0%) irrational (8%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (8%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (16%) impatient (25%) weak (8%) embarrassed (8%) loud (16%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (8%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (8%) dispassionate (8%) overdramatic (25%) dull (16%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (8%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (8%)

Description Breakdown (12 people)

aSaM 2 thinks: insecure, childish, blasé, impatient, simple.
wy thinks: intolerant, unhappy, vulgar, overdramatic, loud.
nini thinks: cruel, cold, humourless, simple, loud.
nini thinks: dull, cold, cowardly, simple, childish.
nickleback thinks: panicky, timid, overdramatic, unhappy, insecure.
.this.is.difficult. thinks: overdramatic, chaotic, unethical, impatient, cold.
anonymous thinks: rash, unhappy, irrational, aloof, glum, inattentive.
mel thinks: unhappy, insecure, timid, panicky, weak.
Vince thinks: stupid, vulgar, violent, dull, cold.
gopi thinks: unhappy, simple, dispassionate, needy, vulgar.
Mugunthan thinks: unhappy, insecure, panicky, impatient, withdrawn, embarrassed.
someone you ask me to do but.. thinks: unhappy, stupid, panicky, childish, chaotic, needy.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.