crystalbunny's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to crystalbunny's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure childish inattentive	Blind Spot timid withdrawn hostile needy irrational distant chaotic panicky overdramatic dull predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade irresponsible loud unreliable	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate callous cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that crystalbunny is needy
75% of people think that crystalbunny is panicky

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (75%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Cal thinks: timid, childish, irrational, panicky, needy.
Lover boy thinks: timid, insecure, overdramatic, panicky, predictable.
Aster thinks: needy, insecure, distant, panicky, withdrawn.
joe bag of thinks: hostile, needy, inattentive, dull, chaotic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, childish, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, withdrawn, hostile, needy, irrational, distant, chaotic, panicky, overdramatic, dull, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> irresponsible, loud, unreliable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, callous, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that crystalbunny is needy 75% of people think that crystalbunny is panicky <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (50%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (25%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (75%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (25%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (75%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (25%) dull (25%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (25%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=crystalbunny">view crystalbunny's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.