dany-mom's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

inflexible
distant
impatient
callous
inattentive

Blind Spot

violent
aloof
irresponsible
unhappy
unhelpful
needy
brash
blasé
chaotic
vacuous
self-satisfied
smug
rash
dispassionate
overdramatic
unreliable
Not Known to Others

Façade

predictable

Unknown

incompetent intolerant timid cowardly glum stupid simple insecure vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish cynical unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive weak embarrassed loud panicky unethical insensitive passive dull cold foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people think that dany-mom is aloof
60% of people agree that dany-mom is distant

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (20%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (20%) aloof (60%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (40%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (20%) unhelpful (20%) cynical (0%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (60%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (20%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (0%) smug (20%) rash (20%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (20%) inattentive (40%) unreliable (20%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

jorah-mom thinks: aloof, violent, impatient, rash, overdramatic.
j "or at least my cellphone" k thinks: irresponsible, chaotic, self-satisfied, inattentive, brash.
Doctor Frederick Chilton thinks: blasé, distant, aloof, unhappy, dispassionate.
darlene thinks: inattentive, unreliable, unhelpful, distant, smug, vacuous.
Josuke thinks: aloof, distant, inflexible, needy, irresponsible, callous.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.