The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to dany-mom's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenainflexibledistant impatient callous inattentive | Blind Spotviolentaloof irresponsible unhappy unhelpful needy brash blasé chaotic vacuous self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic unreliable |
Not Known to Others | Façadepredictable | Unknownincompetent intolerant timid cowardly glum stupid simple insecure vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish cynical unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive weak embarrassed loud panicky unethical insensitive passive dull cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
60% of people think that dany-mom is aloof
60% of people agree that dany-mom is distant
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (20%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (20%) aloof (60%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (40%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (20%) unhelpful (20%) cynical (0%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (60%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (20%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (20%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (0%) smug (20%) rash (20%) dispassionate (20%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (20%) inattentive (40%) unreliable (20%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
jorah-mom thinks: aloof, violent, impatient, rash, overdramatic.
j "or at least my cellphone" k thinks: irresponsible, chaotic, self-satisfied, inattentive, brash.
Doctor Frederick Chilton thinks: blasé, distant, aloof, unhappy, dispassionate.
darlene thinks: inattentive, unreliable, unhelpful, distant, smug, vacuous.
Josuke thinks: aloof, distant, inflexible, needy, irresponsible, callous.
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