The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to darcylovesyou's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenairresponsiblewithdrawn needy chaotic overdramatic cold | Blind Spotinflexibletimid glum insecure unhappy cynical brash irrational distant blasé impatient weak loud insensitive passive dispassionate inattentive unreliable |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant cowardly violent aloof stupid simple vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant childish boastful imperceptive embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied smug rash dull predictable callous foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
71% of people think that darcylovesyou is insecure
71% of people think that darcylovesyou is unhappy
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (14%) timid (14%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (14%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (71%) irresponsible (14%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (42%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (71%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (14%) needy (14%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (14%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (28%) distant (14%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (14%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (42%) impatient (14%) weak (14%) embarrassed (0%) loud (14%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (14%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (14%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (14%) overdramatic (14%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (14%) unreliable (14%) cold (28%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
random clicking thinks: cold, insensitive, unhappy, distant, glum, chaotic.
rosie thinks: unhappy, insecure, needy, withdrawn, loud.
anonymous thinks: weak, insecure, unhappy, inattentive, impatient, cold.
anon thinks: chaotic, overdramatic, brash, unhappy, irrational.
anonymous thinks: insecure, cynical, chaotic, withdrawn, passive.
. thinks: insecure, irrational, blasé, dispassionate, unreliable, inflexible.
L thinks: withdrawn, insecure, unhappy, timid, irresponsible.
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