dearest's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to dearest's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena intolerant childish impatient panicky insensitive	Blind Spot simple insecure brash irrational distant loud cold
Not Known to Others	Façade cynical	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane cruel ignorant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous unethical self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that dearest is insecure
66% of people agree that dearest is childish
66% of people agree that dearest is impatient
66% of people agree that dearest is insensitive

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (33%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (33%) childish (66%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (66%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Felicia thinks: intolerant, insecure, simple, impatient, insensitive, panicky.
j thinks: irrational, distant, childish, brash, cold.
ah_yap thinks: insensitive, impatient, insecure, childish, loud.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> intolerant, childish, impatient, panicky, insensitive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> simple, insecure, brash, irrational, distant, loud, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cynical</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, cruel, ignorant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that dearest is insecure 66% of people agree that dearest is childish 66% of people agree that dearest is impatient 66% of people agree that dearest is insensitive <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (33%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (33%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (33%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (33%) childish (66%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (33%) unethical (0%) insensitive (66%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 31.10.2024, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=dearest">view dearest's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.