deedahlia's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to deedahlia's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure ignorant imperceptive predictable foolish	Blind Spot incompetent inflexible timid irresponsible unhappy needy irrational childish weak overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade	Unknown intolerant cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel distant boastful blasé chaotic impatient embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that deedahlia is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (25%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (50%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (25%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (75%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Hattie_FTW thinks: imperceptive, predictable, timid, insecure, unhappy.
Kaelige thinks: ignorant, overdramatic, inflexible, irrational, predictable.
anon thinks: incompetent, irresponsible, needy, irrational, overdramatic, weak.
R'oan thinks: needy, childish, overdramatic, insecure, foolish.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, ignorant, imperceptive, predictable, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, irresponsible, unhappy, needy, irrational, childish, weak, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> </td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> intolerant, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, distant, boastful, blasé, chaotic, impatient, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that deedahlia is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (25%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (25%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (25%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (25%) irrational (50%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (25%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (25%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (75%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 30.6.2026, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=deedahlia">view deedahlia's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.