demimondaine's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena irresponsible passive	Blind Spot violent glum withdrawn selfish needy inane irrational impatient weak loud vacuous panicky unethical overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade insecure lethargic unreliable	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly aloof stupid simple vulgar hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative brash cruel ignorant distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that demimondaine is impatient

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (33%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (66%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (33%) panicky (33%) unethical (33%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

kn thinks: violent, selfish, inane, impatient, vacuous, loud.
fr thinks: impatient, irrational, overdramatic, needy, withdrawn, glum.
anon thinks: passive, unethical, weak, panicky, irresponsible.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> irresponsible, passive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> violent, glum, withdrawn, selfish, needy, inane, irrational, impatient, weak, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> insecure, lethargic, unreliable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, stupid, simple, vulgar, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, embarrassed, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that demimondaine is impatient <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (33%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (33%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (33%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (66%) weak (33%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (33%) panicky (33%) unethical (33%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 24.4.2024, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=demimondaine">view demimondaine's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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