The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to emotionalvomit's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenawithdrawnimpatient self-satisfied | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible timid aloof stupid insecure cynical cruel ignorant boastful chaotic panicky passive overdramatic |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeselfishchildish | Unknownincompetent cowardly violent glum simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash irrational distant blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
60% of people think that emotionalvomit is inflexible
60% of people agree that emotionalvomit is withdrawn
60% of people think that emotionalvomit is cynical
incompetent (0%) intolerant (20%) inflexible (60%) timid (40%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (20%) simple (0%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (60%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (60%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (20%) ignorant (20%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (20%) impatient (40%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (20%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)
Miss Ann Thrope thinks: inflexible, aloof, withdrawn, passive, timid.
Mia thinks: inflexible, cynical, withdrawn, insecure, timid.
Tracey thinks: intolerant, impatient, chaotic, panicky, withdrawn.
u know who thinks: inflexible, self-satisfied, boastful, cruel, cynical.
my weakness thinks: stupid, impatient, cynical, overdramatic, ignorant.
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