eroticfae's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to eroticfae's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure cynical chaotic	Blind Spot timid withdrawn selfish unhappy needy brash distant childish boastful impatient embarrassed self-satisfied passive foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade incompetent overdramatic predictable	Unknown intolerant inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile unhelpful unimaginative inane cruel ignorant irrational blasé imperceptive weak loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people agree that eroticfae is insecure
60% of people think that eroticfae is needy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (40%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (60%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (60%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (20%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (40%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (20%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (20%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

Tess (damn, this was hard) thinks: insecure, childish, timid, cynical, embarrassed.
Daemon thinks: needy, passive, timid, foolish, insecure.
Heartofau thinks: insecure, unhappy, chaotic, withdrawn, distant.
chaotic thinks: chaotic, self-satisfied, needy, brash, boastful.
Ed thinks: needy, selfish, unhappy, passive, impatient, withdrawn.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, cynical, chaotic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, withdrawn, selfish, unhappy, needy, brash, distant, childish, boastful, impatient, embarrassed, self-satisfied, passive, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> incompetent, overdramatic, predictable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> intolerant, inflexible, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, cruel, ignorant, irrational, blasé, imperceptive, weak, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people agree that eroticfae is insecure 60% of people think that eroticfae is needy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (40%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (60%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (60%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (20%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (20%) boastful (20%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (40%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (20%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (20%) passive (40%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (20%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 21.11.2024, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=eroticfae">view eroticfae's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.