The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to f0urletterlies's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenasimpleinsecure needy impatient loud predictable | Blind Spottimidcowardly lethargic selfish unhappy irrational childish boastful imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed panicky insensitive passive rash overdramatic unreliable foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible violent aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar withdrawn hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant blasé vacuous unethical self-satisfied smug dispassionate dull callous inattentive cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
69% of people agree that f0urletterlies is insecure
84% of people agree that f0urletterlies is needy
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (15%) cowardly (7%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (7%) insecure (69%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (15%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (7%) unhappy (7%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (84%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (7%) distant (0%) childish (38%) boastful (7%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (7%) chaotic (15%) impatient (23%) weak (15%) embarrassed (7%) loud (15%) vacuous (0%) panicky (23%) unethical (0%) insensitive (7%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (15%) smug (0%) rash (7%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (46%) dull (0%) predictable (46%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (7%) cold (0%) foolish (30%) humourless (0%)
Tony thinks: timid, cowardly, insecure, needy, overdramatic, unhappy.
Jill thinks: selfish, imperceptive, overdramatic, childish, needy, foolish.
KATIE!! thinks: lethargic, needy, impatient, loud, overdramatic, insecure.
RockSteady thinks: insecure, predictable, passive, simple, needy.
Lesa thinks: overdramatic, childish, needy, predictable, panicky.
anonymous thinks: lethargic, childish, foolish, overdramatic, needy, weak.
Abi thinks: needy, insecure, loud, boastful, predictable.
Jana a.k.a ginevrawp thinks: insecure, needy, panicky, chaotic, foolish.
headdesk thinks: insecure, unreliable, irrational, weak, impatient, predictable.
Yay Band! XD (Paige) thinks: needy, childish, rash, overdramatic, insecure.
firemommy4 thinks: childish, predictable, chaotic, needy, insensitive.
Ingrid thinks: foolish, embarrassed, insecure, passive, panicky.
abbi thinks: timid, needy, predictable, insecure, impatient.
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