fairy in a goldfishbowl's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to fairy in a goldfishbowl's.

Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

insecure
irrational
loud

Blind Spot

cowardly
simple
childish
impatient
self-satisfied
overdramatic
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

weak
passive

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible timid violent aloof glum stupid irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant distant boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people agree that fairy in a goldfishbowl is insecure
100% of people agree that fairy in a goldfishbowl is loud
75% of people think that fairy in a goldfishbowl is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (25%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (50%) distant (0%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (100%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (75%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Hello thinks: insecure, simple, impatient, irrational, loud.
zEe_wUn thinks: insecure, loud, childish, overdramatic, simple.
mu thinks: cowardly, insecure, loud, foolish, overdramatic.
dew thinks: overdramatic, loud, insecure, self-satisfied, irrational.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.