firesoule's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to firesoule's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure cynical overdramatic	Blind Spot intolerant aloof stupid simple irresponsible vulgar withdrawn hostile unhappy needy inane ignorant irrational distant childish chaotic loud vacuous panicky self-satisfied smug foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade timid selfish	Unknown incompetent inflexible cowardly violent glum lethargic unhelpful unimaginative brash cruel boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed unethical insensitive passive rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (16%) simple (16%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (16%) vulgar (16%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (16%) selfish (0%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (16%) unimaginative (0%) inane (16%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (33%) irrational (33%) distant (16%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (16%) panicky (16%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (0%) smug (16%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (16%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

i-dont-want-to-say-who-i-am thinks: insecure, loud, irresponsible, chaotic, aloof.
Anu thinks: panicky, chaotic, intolerant, cynical, vulgar, loud.
sad face thinks: vacuous, aloof, stupid, self-satisfied, smug, inane.
frank thinks: overdramatic, loud, ignorant, irrational, childish, hostile.
wei thinks: chaotic, aloof, childish, needy, simple.
Andy thinks: ignorant, irrational, foolish, withdrawn, unhappy, distant.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, cynical, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, aloof, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, needy, inane, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, chaotic, loud, vacuous, panicky, self-satisfied, smug, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> timid, selfish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, cowardly, violent, glum, lethargic, unhelpful, unimaginative, brash, cruel, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, unethical, insensitive, passive, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (50%) glum (0%) stupid (16%) simple (16%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (16%) vulgar (16%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (16%) hostile (16%) selfish (0%) unhappy (16%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (16%) unimaginative (0%) inane (16%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (33%) irrational (33%) distant (16%) childish (33%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (50%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (16%) panicky (16%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (0%) smug (16%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (16%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 21.1.2025, using data from 6 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=firesoule">view firesoule's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.