graciie's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena loud overdramatic	Blind Spot needy childish chaotic unethical inattentive foolish humourless
Not Known to Others	Façade stupid vulgar lethargic callous	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum simple insecure irresponsible withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed vacuous panicky insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable unreliable cold
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

100% of people think that graciie is chaotic
100% of people think that graciie is inattentive
100% of people think that graciie is foolish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (100%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (50%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (100%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (100%) humourless (50%)

Description Breakdown (2 people)

raudha thinks: childish, foolish, overdramatic, inattentive, loud, chaotic.
Yanti thinks: inattentive, chaotic, needy, humourless, unethical, foolish.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> loud, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> needy, childish, chaotic, unethical, inattentive, foolish, humourless</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> stupid, vulgar, lethargic, callous</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, simple, insecure, irresponsible, withdrawn, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, unreliable, cold</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>100% of people think that graciie is chaotic 100% of people think that graciie is inattentive 100% of people think that graciie is foolish <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (50%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (50%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (100%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (50%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (100%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (100%) humourless (50%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2026, using data from 2 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=graciie">view graciie's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.