here we go's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure loud	Blind Spot intolerant violent stupid vulgar hostile cynical vacuous panicky unethical overdramatic predictable
Not Known to Others	Façade selfish childish boastful chaotic	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly aloof glum simple irresponsible lethargic withdrawn unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that here we go is intolerant
66% of people agree that here we go is insecure
66% of people agree that here we go is loud
66% of people think that here we go is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (33%) panicky (33%) unethical (33%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Kristy Trent thinks: panicky, intolerant, loud, overdramatic, insecure.
J-Dawg thinks: loud, intolerant, insecure, cynical, overdramatic, predictable.
Freida Freckle thinks: violent, stupid, vulgar, hostile, vacuous, unethical.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, loud</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, stupid, vulgar, hostile, cynical, vacuous, panicky, unethical, overdramatic, predictable</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> selfish, childish, boastful, chaotic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, aloof, glum, simple, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that here we go is intolerant 66% of people agree that here we go is insecure 66% of people agree that here we go is loud 66% of people think that here we go is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (66%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (33%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (33%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (33%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (33%) panicky (33%) unethical (33%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.5.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=here we go">view here we go's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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