heysephia's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to heysephia's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena simple loud predictable	Blind Spot stupid insecure vulgar selfish cynical blasé impatient panicky self-satisfied overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade childish rash foolish	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent aloof glum irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant boastful imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed vacuous unethical insensitive passive smug dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that heysephia is blasé

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (25%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (75%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

eeyore thinks: cynical, selfish, impatient, blasé, insecure.
Hansen thinks: vulgar, insecure, predictable, panicky, blasé.
Sorcy thinks: loud, overdramatic, , predictable, stupid, self-satisfied.
yinyeksin thinks: simple, panicky, loud, overdramatic, blasé.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> simple, loud, predictable</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> stupid, insecure, vulgar, selfish, cynical, blasé, impatient, panicky, self-satisfied, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> childish, rash, foolish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, glum, irresponsible, lethargic, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, boastful, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, passive, smug, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that heysephia is blasé <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (25%) simple (25%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (25%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (75%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (50%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 19.4.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=heysephia">view heysephia's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.