The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to highlander's.
Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaaloofselfish distant impatient self-satisfied | Blind Spotincompetentintolerant inflexible timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible vulgar lethargic withdrawn unhappy unhelpful cynical needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud unethical insensitive passive smug dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless |
Not Known to Others | Façade | Unknownhostile vacuous panicky rash |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
incompetent (2%) intolerant (2%) inflexible (10%) timid (13%) cowardly (7%) violent (2%) aloof (25%) glum (2%) stupid (7%) simple (11%) insecure (10%) irresponsible (2%) vulgar (2%) lethargic (1%) withdrawn (32%) hostile (0%) selfish (13%) unhappy (13%) unhelpful (10%) cynical (22%) needy (2%) unimaginative (14%) inane (1%) brash (5%) cruel (1%) ignorant (4%) irrational (7%) distant (39%) childish (7%) boastful (5%) blasé (2%) imperceptive (14%) chaotic (10%) impatient (14%) weak (8%) embarrassed (4%) loud (2%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (2%) insensitive (8%) self-satisfied (25%) passive (17%) smug (10%) rash (0%) dispassionate (19%) overdramatic (5%) dull (16%) predictable (22%) callous (2%) inattentive (14%) unreliable (5%) cold (17%) foolish (5%) humourless (14%)
JocktheMotie thinks: timid, aloof, insecure, embarrassed, distant.
mmhmm thinks: self-satisfied, selfish, brash, impatient, withdrawn.
none thinks: impatient, self-satisfied, inflexible, distant, smug.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, ignorant, predictable, cold, weak.
Nerd Girl thinks: dull, cynical, predictable, simple, humourless, smug.
TG thinks: aloof, unimaginative, callous, withdrawn, brash.
Arclight thinks: inflexible, passive, intolerant, dispassionate, predictable.
Vasilisa thinks: cold, insensitive, imperceptive, aloof, inflexible.
Satine thinks: withdrawn, distant, dispassionate, aloof, passive.
anonymous thinks: impatient, needy, chaotic, selfish, embarrassed.
ywir thinks: inattentive, aloof, distant, withdrawn, cynical.
z buck "I hate noharis" mcfate thinks: dispassionate, predictable, distant, unhappy, inflexible.
thinks: withdrawn, cold, smug, dull, cynical.
Jeepers thinks: timid, embarrassed, glum, withdrawn, aloof.
1 thinks: unhelpful, selfish, boastful, predictable, cold, overdramatic.
free thinks: aloof, insensitive, passive, dull, insecure.
ku thinks: timid, unhappy, irrational, distant, overdramatic, foolish.
your lover thinks: unimaginative, predictable, childish, weak, simple.
ion thinks: distant, ignorant, vulgar, glum, cynical, self-satisfied.
anono mouse thinks: aloof, distant, impatient, self-satisfied, dispassionate.
ann thinks: insensitive, inattentive, selfish, cold, smug.
Ivy thinks: childish, stupid, loud, self-satisfied, incompetent.
Anonymous thinks: dispassionate, distant, smug, cynical, withdrawn, cold.
anonymous thinks: distant, dispassionate, inattentive, predictable, humourless.
Kami thinks: dull, stupid, unhelpful, unimaginative, imperceptive.
Wind-up Rex thinks: blasé, self-satisfied, dull, stupid, predictable, foolish.
GrosCanard thinks: intolerant, cynical, childish, imperceptive, impatient, self-satisfied.
jrych thinks: unhappy, unhelpful, timid, distant, passive.
bnj thinks: aloof, withdrawn, distant, unethical, unreliable, inattentive.
Braderick thinks: irrational, loud, boastful, overdramatic, inattentive, insensitive.
Braderick thinks: self-satisfied, overdramatic, insensitive, inattentive, boastful, chaotic.
anon thinks: dull, dispassionate, unimaginative, distant, humourless.
Anon thinks: dull, humourless, smug, predictable, withdrawn.
yeghor thinks: dispassionate, unimaginative, self-satisfied, dull, predictable, simple.
anon thinks: distant, passive, dispassionate, withdrawn, cold.
Pandemeria thinks: timid, withdrawn, cynical, passive, irrational, insecure.
brandi thinks: impatient, unreliable, predictable, humourless, unhappy.
Joe thinks: cowardly, simple, weak, foolish, stupid.
nanlou thinks: vulgar, unhappy, distant, chaotic, passive, predictable.
anon thinks: unhelpful, imperceptive, inattentive, unreliable, callous.
Frosty6226 thinks: self-satisfied, humourless, distant, withdrawn, unimaginative.
Kas thinks: distant, aloof, inattentive, passive, self-satisfied.
Kuhayla thinks: needy, aloof, lethargic, insecure, passive.
sinning roll thinks: imperceptive, self-satisfied, predictable, humourless, inflexible.
tomanema thinks: violent, selfish, distant, chaotic, cowardly, cruel.
X thinks: cynical, cowardly, humourless, predictable, impatient.
kjjj thinks: unhappy, distant, childish, unhelpful, insecure, smug.
Artyom thinks: aloof, cynical, chaotic, violent, impatient.
Orange thinks: timid, simple, withdrawn, unimaginative, dull.
Holly thinks: inflexible, withdrawn, distant, insensitive, cold.
jj thinks: incompetent, aloof, unimaginative, impatient, weak.
INTJ thinks: irresponsible, inattentive, cynical, insecure, unhelpful.
INTJ thinks: stupid, insecure, withdrawn, cynical, dispassionate, irresponsible.
quedate en silencio thinks: unhappy, distant, cold, timid, withdrawn, cynical.
anon thinks: unhappy, inane, irrational, ignorant, blasé, imperceptive.
stupidgirl thinks: cowardly, cold, distant, cynical, selfish, impatient.
StrawberryBoots thinks: boastful, self-satisfied, dull, withdrawn, dispassionate.
Krayfish thinks: aloof, dispassionate, distant, passive, withdrawn.
anonymous thinks: unreliable, weak, timid, aloof, unhelpful, withdrawn.
rda thinks: timid, aloof, brash, chaotic, unimaginative.
HoneyBlossom thinks: cold, cynical, self-satisfied, passive, distant, imperceptive.
HelenOfTroy thinks: dispassionate, passive, imperceptive, brash, predictable.
Eryn Silverfrond thinks: cowardly, simple, unethical, weak, unimaginative.
I've never met you in person thinks: withdrawn, distant, chaotic, cynical, self-satisfied.
Name thinks: aloof, cold, distant, self-satisfied, selfish, humourless.
R thinks: foolish, imperceptive, irrational, selfish, childish, inattentive.
anonymous thinks: withdrawn, inflexible, simple, unhappy, distant.
6 thinks: humourless, imperceptive, simple, dull, self-satisfied, selfish.
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