icelemontee's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena selfish cynical impatient insensitive smug	Blind Spot inflexible aloof simple insecure irresponsible withdrawn distant boastful blasé imperceptive embarrassed self-satisfied passive dull inattentive cold
Not Known to Others	Façade rash	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent glum stupid vulgar lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish chaotic weak loud vacuous panicky unethical dispassionate overdramatic predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

60% of people agree that icelemontee is smug

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (20%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (20%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (40%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (0%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (40%) passive (20%) smug (60%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (20%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (20%) unreliable (0%) cold (20%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

shawn thinks: smug, inattentive, impatient, insecure, dull.
jane thinks: insensitive, blasé, selfish, inflexible, self-satisfied, imperceptive.
shoo thinks: smug, boastful, cynical, self-satisfied, embarrassed.
s thinks: blasé, simple, irresponsible, embarrassed, passive.
??? thinks: smug, aloof, withdrawn, distant, cold.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> selfish, cynical, impatient, insensitive, smug</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, aloof, simple, insecure, irresponsible, withdrawn, distant, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, embarrassed, self-satisfied, passive, dull, inattentive, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> rash</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, chaotic, weak, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, dispassionate, overdramatic, predictable, callous, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>60% of people agree that icelemontee is smug <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (20%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (20%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (20%) insecure (20%) irresponsible (20%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (20%) hostile (0%) selfish (20%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (20%) childish (0%) boastful (20%) blasé (40%) imperceptive (20%) chaotic (0%) impatient (20%) weak (0%) embarrassed (40%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (20%) self-satisfied (40%) passive (20%) smug (60%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (20%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (20%) unreliable (0%) cold (20%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 10.9.2026, using data from 5 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=icelemontee">view icelemontee's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.