jewel1753's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to jewel1753's.

	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena insecure unhappy needy panicky	Blind Spot timid aloof glum vulgar lethargic withdrawn impatient passive foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade cowardly selfish	Unknown incompetent intolerant inflexible violent stupid simple irresponsible hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that jewel1753 is timid
75% of people agree that jewel1753 is unhappy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (75%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (75%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Lizzy thinks: passive, timid, aloof, insecure, unhappy.
jonnie thinks: timid, unhappy, foolish, insecure, needy.
Andrew thinks: glum, unhappy, withdrawn, impatient, panicky.
ryan thinks: withdrawn, lethargic, timid, vulgar, passive, panicky.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> insecure, unhappy, needy, panicky</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> timid, aloof, glum, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, impatient, passive, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cowardly, selfish</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, inflexible, violent, stupid, simple, irresponsible, hostile, unhelpful, cynical, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, smug, rash, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that jewel1753 is timid 75% of people agree that jewel1753 is unhappy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (75%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (25%) glum (25%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (25%) lethargic (25%) withdrawn (50%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (75%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (25%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (25%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (50%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (25%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 15.2.2025, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=jewel1753">view jewel1753's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.