julescupcakes's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena unhappy panicky	Blind Spot inflexible glum insecure withdrawn cynical inane distant childish chaotic embarrassed vacuous smug rash
Not Known to Others	Façade hostile loud self-satisfied inattentive	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent aloof stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic selfish unhelpful needy unimaginative brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak unethical insensitive passive dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

75% of people think that julescupcakes is glum

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (75%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (25%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (25%) rash (25%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (4 people)

Rhi thinks: embarrassed, withdrawn, distant, insecure, glum.
eleanorjane thinks: embarrassed, , cynical, glum, panicky.
anonymous thinks: inflexible, insecure, inane, childish, smug, vacuous.
likes cupcakes thinks: glum, unhappy, rash, panicky, chaotic.

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<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> unhappy, panicky</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, glum, insecure, withdrawn, cynical, inane, distant, childish, chaotic, embarrassed, vacuous, smug, rash</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> hostile, loud, self-satisfied, inattentive</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, aloof, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, selfish, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, unethical, insensitive, passive, dispassionate, overdramatic, dull, predictable, callous, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>75% of people think that julescupcakes is glum <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (75%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (50%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (25%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (25%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (25%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (25%) childish (25%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (25%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (50%) loud (0%) vacuous (25%) panicky (50%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (25%) rash (25%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 12.12.2024, using data from 4 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=julescupcakes">view julescupcakes's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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