kit_444's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena aloof insecure withdrawn cynical distant	Blind Spot inflexible timid glum needy self-satisfied passive overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade cold	Unknown incompetent intolerant cowardly violent stupid simple irresponsible vulgar lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable callous inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that kit_444 is timid
66% of people agree that kit_444 is insecure
66% of people think that kit_444 is needy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (66%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

spinningwoman thinks: insecure, needy, overdramatic, passive, timid.
bohemiangrrl thinks: inflexible, withdrawn, self-satisfied, aloof, distant.
anonymous thinks: insecure, timid, needy, glum, cynical.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> aloof, insecure, withdrawn, cynical, distant</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, timid, glum, needy, self-satisfied, passive, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> cold</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, cowardly, violent, stupid, simple, irresponsible, vulgar, lethargic, hostile, selfish, unhappy, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, chaotic, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, callous, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that kit_444 is timid 66% of people agree that kit_444 is insecure 66% of people think that kit_444 is needy <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (66%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (33%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (33%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (66%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (33%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (33%) passive (33%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 2.2.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=kit_444">view kit_444's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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