ladycaviar's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

intolerant
withdrawn
cynical
overdramatic

Blind Spot

timid
insecure
vulgar
lethargic
unhappy
inane
brash
distant
childish
boastful
chaotic
impatient
loud
rash
callous
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

needy
insensitive

Unknown

incompetent inflexible cowardly violent aloof glum stupid simple irresponsible hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative cruel ignorant irrational blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug dispassionate dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

54% of people think that ladycaviar is insecure
54% of people think that ladycaviar is unhappy
54% of people agree that ladycaviar is cynical

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (9%) inflexible (0%) timid (18%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (54%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (18%) lethargic (9%) withdrawn (27%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (54%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (54%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (9%) brash (36%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (27%) childish (9%) boastful (18%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (27%) impatient (45%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (27%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (9%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (27%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (9%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (9%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (11 people)

rlg thinks: loud, callous, vulgar, boastful, foolish.
sunniva thinks: cynical, withdrawn, overdramatic, distant, intolerant.
melvh thinks: timid, vulgar, brash, insecure, cynical.
JohnOmar thinks: insecure, childish, unhappy, impatient, chaotic.
Yamina thinks: chaotic, unhappy, brash, lethargic, loud.
Yamina al Zahra' thinks: unhappy, cynical, impatient, loud, distant.
anonymous thinks: insecure, impatient, brash, unhappy, withdrawn.
zada thinks: unhappy, timid, overdramatic, insecure, inane.
anonymous thinks: cynical, impatient, withdrawn, insecure, chaotic.
Rhys thinks: cynical, rash, boastful, brash, overdramatic.
katyakievskaya thinks: impatient, insecure, unhappy, cynical, distant.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.