The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to lafillefolle's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenavulgarcynical needy distant passive | Blind Spotviolentaloof insecure inane cruel childish blasé imperceptive loud insensitive self-satisfied dispassionate predictable foolish |
| Not Known to Others | Façadeboastful | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible timid cowardly glum stupid simple irresponsible lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative brash ignorant irrational chaotic impatient weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical smug rash overdramatic dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
62% of people agree that lafillefolle is cynical
100% of people think that lafillefolle is childish
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (12%) aloof (25%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (12%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (37%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (62%) needy (37%) unimaginative (0%) inane (25%) brash (0%) cruel (12%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (12%) childish (100%) boastful (0%) blasé (12%) imperceptive (12%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (50%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (12%) self-satisfied (12%) passive (12%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (12%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (25%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (12%) humourless (0%)
so and so thinks: loud, vulgar, insensitive, predictable, childish.
Matt thinks: cynical, childish, passive, aloof, loud.
ninasoldada thinks: distant, childish, aloof, cynical, needy.
Katiee thinks: cynical, childish, dispassionate, blasé, insecure.
ellen thinks: needy, loud, childish, predictable, self-satisfied.
AnnaKate thinks: childish, cynical, inane, imperceptive, foolish.
Liz thinks: vulgar, cynical, needy, loud, childish.
Charyse thinks: violent, childish, vulgar, inane, cruel.
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