lappylapin's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

needy
overdramatic

Blind Spot

timid
glum
simple
insecure
lethargic
withdrawn
unhappy
distant
childish
passive
Not Known to Others

Façade

cowardly
stupid
selfish
dull

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible violent aloof irresponsible vulgar hostile unhelpful cynical unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational boastful blasé imperceptive chaotic impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied smug rash dispassionate predictable callous inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

80% of people think that lappylapin is timid
100% of people think that lappylapin is insecure
60% of people think that lappylapin is unhappy

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (80%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (40%) stupid (0%) simple (40%) insecure (100%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (20%) withdrawn (40%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (60%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (40%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (40%) childish (20%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (20%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (5 people)

Dox, who doesn't hate you D: thinks: timid, simple, insecure, passive, distant.
Ember thinks: timid, needy, insecure, unhappy, simple.
Lpve thinks: insecure, needy, overdramatic, withdrawn, timid, glum.
del_darakh thinks: glum, unhappy, timid, insecure, childish.
anonymous thinks: distant, unhappy, withdrawn, lethargic, insecure.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.