lil_mysh's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

violent
insensitive
inattentive

Blind Spot

timid
glum
simple
insecure
vulgar
lethargic
unhappy
cynical
needy
brash
cruel
irrational
distant
childish
imperceptive
embarrassed
loud
panicky
self-satisfied
passive
rash
overdramatic
predictable
foolish
Not Known to Others

Façade

cowardly
stupid
weak

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible aloof irresponsible withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane ignorant boastful blasé chaotic impatient vacuous unethical smug dispassionate dull callous unreliable cold humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

70% of people think that lil_mysh is childish

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (10%) cowardly (0%) violent (20%) aloof (0%) glum (10%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (30%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (20%) lethargic (10%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (10%) cruel (10%) ignorant (0%) irrational (10%) distant (20%) childish (70%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (40%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (10%) loud (10%) vacuous (0%) panicky (20%) unethical (0%) insensitive (10%) self-satisfied (10%) passive (10%) smug (0%) rash (20%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (10%) callous (0%) inattentive (10%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (10%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (10 people)

kenevvy:D thinks: cynical, rash, violent, foolish, childish.
hazeline thinks: insecure, unhappy, imperceptive, inattentive, simple.
maxi :( thinks: insecure, timid, predictable, glum, unhappy.
shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thinks: rash, loud, vulgar, childish, panicky.
jira thinks: needy, unhappy, childish, panicky, imperceptive, overdramatic.
tanya thinks: childish, distant, needy, simple, imperceptive.
MarkLim thinks: insecure, insensitive, imperceptive, lethargic, brash, cynical.
shell_fish :) thinks: childish, violent, simple, cruel, irrational, passive.
katrine thinks: distant, unhappy, embarrassed, childish, simple.
arvin thinks: vulgar, childish, self-satisfied, overdramatic, simple.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.