The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
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Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
Known to Others | Arenaviolentinsensitive inattentive | Blind Spottimidglum simple insecure vulgar lethargic unhappy cynical needy brash cruel irrational distant childish imperceptive embarrassed loud panicky self-satisfied passive rash overdramatic predictable foolish |
Not Known to Others | Façadecowardlystupid weak | Unknownincompetent intolerant inflexible aloof irresponsible withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane ignorant boastful blasé chaotic impatient vacuous unethical smug dispassionate dull callous unreliable cold humourless |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) |
70% of people think that lil_mysh is childish
incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (10%) cowardly (0%) violent (20%) aloof (0%) glum (10%) stupid (0%) simple (50%) insecure (30%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (20%) lethargic (10%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (40%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (20%) needy (20%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (10%) cruel (10%) ignorant (0%) irrational (10%) distant (20%) childish (70%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (40%) chaotic (0%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (10%) loud (10%) vacuous (0%) panicky (20%) unethical (0%) insensitive (10%) self-satisfied (10%) passive (10%) smug (0%) rash (20%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (20%) dull (0%) predictable (10%) callous (0%) inattentive (10%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (10%) humourless (0%)
kenevvy:D thinks: cynical, rash, violent, foolish, childish.
hazeline thinks: insecure, unhappy, imperceptive, inattentive, simple.
maxi :( thinks: insecure, timid, predictable, glum, unhappy.
shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh thinks: rash, loud, vulgar, childish, panicky.
jira thinks: needy, unhappy, childish, panicky, imperceptive, overdramatic.
tanya thinks: childish, distant, needy, simple, imperceptive.
MarkLim thinks: insecure, insensitive, imperceptive, lethargic, brash, cynical.
shell_fish :) thinks: childish, violent, simple, cruel, irrational, passive.
katrine thinks: distant, unhappy, embarrassed, childish, simple.
arvin thinks: vulgar, childish, self-satisfied, overdramatic, simple.
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