m9dhatter's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cynical chaotic	Blind Spot intolerant violent glum insecure hostile unhappy needy cruel impatient loud overdramatic
Not Known to Others	Façade aloof irresponsible insensitive callous	Unknown incompetent inflexible timid cowardly stupid simple vulgar lethargic withdrawn selfish unhelpful unimaginative inane brash ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé imperceptive weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull predictable inattentive unreliable cold foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that m9dhatter is glum
66% of people think that m9dhatter is loud

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (66%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (50%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

ianthe thinks: loud, , glum, glum, hostile.
donna thinks: violent, chaotic, cynical, cruel, hostile.
hylee thinks: unhappy, impatient, needy, glum, chaotic.
ria thinks: loud, cruel, impatient, hostile, unhappy.
kayongat thinks: , loud, glum, violent, violent.
anonymous thinks: overdramatic, loud, intolerant, needy, insecure.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cynical, chaotic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> intolerant, violent, glum, insecure, hostile, unhappy, needy, cruel, impatient, loud, overdramatic</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> aloof, irresponsible, insensitive, callous</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, inflexible, timid, cowardly, stupid, simple, vulgar, lethargic, withdrawn, selfish, unhelpful, unimaginative, inane, brash, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, inattentive, unreliable, cold, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that m9dhatter is glum 66% of people think that m9dhatter is loud <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (16%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (50%) aloof (0%) glum (66%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (16%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (50%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (16%) needy (33%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (33%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (33%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (66%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (16%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.6.2026, using data from 6 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=m9dhatter">view m9dhatter's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.