m_ikey's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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Known
to
Self
Not
Known
to
Self
Known to Others

Arena

aloof
glum
insecure
cynical
impatient

Blind Spot

timid
cowardly
stupid
irresponsible
unhappy
needy
unimaginative
distant
blasé
self-satisfied
passive
smug
inattentive
cold
Not Known to Others

Façade

vulgar

Unknown

incompetent intolerant inflexible violent simple lethargic withdrawn hostile selfish unhelpful inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful imperceptive chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical insensitive rash dispassionate overdramatic dull predictable callous unreliable foolish humourless

(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people agree that m_ikey is glum
66% of people agree that m_ikey is insecure

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (33%) cowardly (16%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (66%) stupid (16%) simple (0%) insecure (66%) irresponsible (16%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (33%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (16%) unimaginative (16%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (16%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (33%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (0%) impatient (16%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (16%) passive (33%) smug (16%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (0%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (0%) inattentive (16%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (6 people)

LiBee thinks: passive, glum, insecure, unhappy, smug.
LuciFiction thinks: insecure, irresponsible, glum, passive, impatient.
mikey's a cunt thinks: cowardly, timid, stupid, inattentive, unimaginative, needy.
lord mitz thinks: aloof, cynical, distant, blasé, self-satisfied, cold.
Dita Dolly thinks: aloof, cynical, blasé, insecure, glum.
i thinks: insecure, cold, timid, cynical, glum, unhappy.

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The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
Any questions? Check the FAQ.
For the original positive spin, look through the Johari Window.