milknchees's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena cynical distant insensitive smug	Blind Spot inflexible timid cowardly vulgar selfish chaotic overdramatic callous cold
Not Known to Others	Façade withdrawn self-satisfied	Unknown incompetent intolerant violent aloof glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible lethargic hostile unhappy unhelpful needy unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish boastful blasé imperceptive impatient weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical passive rash dispassionate dull predictable inattentive unreliable foolish humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that milknchees is selfish
66% of people agree that milknchees is distant
66% of people think that milknchees is callous

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (33%) cowardly (33%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (66%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (66%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (66%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

anonymous meanie thinks: inflexible, timid, distant, smug, selfish.
lotusleaf thinks: overdramatic, chaotic, vulgar, cynical, callous.
Ambere thinks: cold, distant, selfish, insensitive, callous, cowardly.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> cynical, distant, insensitive, smug</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> inflexible, timid, cowardly, vulgar, selfish, chaotic, overdramatic, callous, cold</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> withdrawn, self-satisfied</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, violent, aloof, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, irresponsible, lethargic, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, needy, unimaginative, inane, brash, cruel, ignorant, irrational, childish, boastful, blasé, imperceptive, impatient, weak, embarrassed, loud, vacuous, panicky, unethical, passive, rash, dispassionate, dull, predictable, inattentive, unreliable, foolish, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that milknchees is selfish 66% of people agree that milknchees is distant 66% of people think that milknchees is callous <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (33%) timid (33%) cowardly (33%) violent (0%) aloof (0%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (33%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (66%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (33%) needy (0%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (66%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (0%) chaotic (33%) impatient (0%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (33%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (33%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (33%) dull (0%) predictable (0%) callous (66%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (33%) foolish (0%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 17.6.2026, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="https://kevan.org/nohari?view=milknchees">view milknchees's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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