missadrii's Nohari Window

The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.

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	Known to Self	Not Known to Self
Known to Others	Arena selfish impatient overdramatic	Blind Spot aloof lethargic needy unimaginative imperceptive chaotic loud predictable foolish
Not Known to Others	Façade inflexible brash	Unknown incompetent intolerant timid cowardly violent glum stupid simple insecure irresponsible vulgar withdrawn hostile unhappy unhelpful cynical inane cruel ignorant irrational distant childish boastful blasé weak embarrassed vacuous panicky unethical insensitive self-satisfied passive smug rash dispassionate dull callous inattentive unreliable cold humourless
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.)

Dominant Traits

66% of people think that missadrii is needy
66% of people agree that missadrii is impatient
66% of people agree that missadrii is overdramatic

All Percentages

incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (33%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%)

Description Breakdown (3 people)

Kim thinks: loud, overdramatic, impatient, chaotic, needy.
abby thinks: selfish, needy, imperceptive, overdramatic, foolish.
Vincent thinks: unimaginative, impatient, predictable, aloof, lethargic.

You can display these results in an email or journal, by cutting and pasting the following HTML:-

<table style="text-align:center;border-spacing:0px; border-collapse:collapse;"> <tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#ccf"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Arena</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to self and others)</div> selfish, impatient, overdramatic</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#fcc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Blind Spot</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to others)</div> aloof, lethargic, needy, unimaginative, imperceptive, chaotic, loud, predictable, foolish</td></tr><tr><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;vertical-align:top;background:#cfc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Façade</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known only to self)</div> inflexible, brash</td><td style="border:1px solid #000;padding:4px;width:50%;background:#ccc"> <h2 style="margin:0px">Unknown</h2> <div style="font-size:0.7em">(known to nobody)</div> incompetent, intolerant, timid, cowardly, violent, glum, stupid, simple, insecure, irresponsible, vulgar, withdrawn, hostile, unhappy, unhelpful, cynical, inane, cruel, ignorant, irrational, distant, childish, boastful, blasé, weak, embarrassed, vacuous, panicky, unethical, insensitive, self-satisfied, passive, smug, rash, dispassionate, dull, callous, inattentive, unreliable, cold, humourless</td></tr></table> <h2>Dominant Traits</h2>66% of people think that missadrii is needy 66% of people agree that missadrii is impatient 66% of people agree that missadrii is overdramatic <h3>All Percentages</h3>incompetent (0%) intolerant (0%) inflexible (0%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (33%) glum (0%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (0%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (0%) lethargic (33%) withdrawn (0%) hostile (0%) selfish (33%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (0%) needy (66%) unimaginative (33%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (0%) childish (0%) boastful (0%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (33%) chaotic (33%) impatient (66%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (33%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (0%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (0%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (66%) dull (0%) predictable (33%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (0%) foolish (33%) humourless (0%) <div style="border:1px solid #000; padding:8px; text-align:center;background:#eee"> Created by the <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">Nohari Window</a> on 9.2.2025, using data from 3 respondents. You can <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari">make your own Nohari Window</a>, or <a href="http://kevan.org/nohari?view=missadrii">view missadrii's full data</a>. </div>

The Nohari Window was tinted by Kevan on the 12th of February 2006.
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