The Nohari Window is a challenging inversion of the Johari Window, using antonyms of the original words. By describing your failings from a fixed list of adjectives, then asking your friends and colleagues to describe you from the same list, a grid of perceived and unrecognised weaknesses can be explored.
You can get your own Nohari Window, or contribute to my6friends's.
| Known to Self |
Not Known to Self | |
| Known to Others | Arenainsecurecynical needy distant impatient | Blind Spotintolerantinflexible aloof glum vulgar withdrawn boastful imperceptive insensitive smug overdramatic predictable cold humourless |
| Not Known to Others | Façadedull | Unknownincompetent timid cowardly violent stupid simple irresponsible lethargic hostile selfish unhappy unhelpful unimaginative inane brash cruel ignorant irrational childish blasé chaotic weak embarrassed loud vacuous panicky unethical self-satisfied passive rash dispassionate callous inattentive unreliable foolish |
(Hover over a word to see how many people chose it.) | ||
62% of people think that my6friends is aloof
62% of people think that my6friends is glum
incompetent (0%) intolerant (50%) inflexible (25%) timid (0%) cowardly (0%) violent (0%) aloof (62%) glum (62%) stupid (0%) simple (0%) insecure (37%) irresponsible (0%) vulgar (37%) lethargic (0%) withdrawn (12%) hostile (0%) selfish (0%) unhappy (0%) unhelpful (0%) cynical (50%) needy (12%) unimaginative (0%) inane (0%) brash (0%) cruel (0%) ignorant (0%) irrational (0%) distant (37%) childish (0%) boastful (12%) blasé (0%) imperceptive (12%) chaotic (0%) impatient (12%) weak (0%) embarrassed (0%) loud (0%) vacuous (0%) panicky (0%) unethical (0%) insensitive (25%) self-satisfied (0%) passive (0%) smug (12%) rash (0%) dispassionate (0%) overdramatic (50%) dull (0%) predictable (12%) callous (0%) inattentive (0%) unreliable (0%) cold (12%) foolish (0%) humourless (12%)
stan- thinks: aloof, insensitive, cynical, impatient, intolerant.
Huan Ling thinks: overdramatic, insecure, cynical, glum, distant.
japheth thinks: vulgar, cynical, insecure, distant, imperceptive.
richie thinks: vulgar, cold, withdrawn, aloof, glum, distant.
brendan thinks: overdramatic, aloof, cynical, glum, intolerant.
ph thinks: insensitive, intolerant, glum, vulgar, boastful, overdramatic.
ce thinks: inflexible, glum, overdramatic, intolerant, aloof, predictable.
bren thinks: insecure, needy, inflexible, smug, humourless, aloof.
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